Raise your hand if you ever wanted to work with some comfort, just get in your car, drive 1 mile a minute and be at your job at certain hour or time. We all look for the best for our own bodies.
Don't get offended, myself a little bit fat, but I have met so many high tech guys and maybe they are not as fat as a pig, but somehow chubby or fattish. Why? Because they are stuck to their computer all day long, some with no time to exercise, then, after their hard work, they have to drive another hour back home. To just eat dinner, hit the sack and go to sleep.
Housing in this area requires many sacrifices. Health shouldn't be one of them. Do as I do, I don't like a job, I quit and go somewhere else where I feel happy and not a ready to go postal on anybody.
On the other hand, same I would say to those who complain about crime, the sun hitting their eyes, being snobs by wanting to live in another town because they feel rich, and that house doesn't go with their social status, etc.
Shall I tell them to "shut up", or "stop whining"?
You are very welcome!