I believe that should teach you kids to be self sufficient. No guarantees, it’s a dangerous world. I just believe that earthquake damage is usally over blown. My phone worked fine in 1989. Trees are not an issue. But some bridges may collapse. However they all been retro fitted since 1989.
I think hurricanes are much more devastating. I do not remember power outages and cell phone issues
So, if you had kids, your plan would be that they walk home alone, BBQ in the backyard, and sleep in the house or car until you get there–even if it’s a couple of days.
If that’s the plan, great, but I’d like to hear that from parents of actual kids…
MI am just giving the advice of a structural engineer. Probably not a good idea to be forty miles away for a number of other issues. Big fires, traffic jams civil protests blocking freeways. Power outages, big storms…
I commuted to high school 40miles each day from Berkeley to SF. 1hr by car 2hrs by bus no BART in 1967 or cell phones
Let your kids sleep in the house after a quake. After shocks are never bigger than the main quake. I don’t remember anyone in the BA sleeping outside in 1989.if there is obvious damage then call authorities or sleep outside. But like I said that is an extremely rare issue.
It doesn’t matter if I’ve experienced an earthquake. What matters is that I’m responsible for having a reasonable plan in place to get my kids from whoever is taking care of them, followed by a backup plan. The final backup plan is that whoever currently has my kids calls CPS when I fail to show up. It’s possible in an Earthquake that teachers have to stay there until a parent or “authorized person” gets there.
When you have kids, you have to have plans for everything from Caltrain hits someone and is delayed past pickup time, to both you and your spouse dying in a car accident while on a “date” and the kids are with a babysitter. When I had an infant and my husband needed to travel, I started having a plan that someone would make sure they’d heard from me everyday because I didn’t want an infant going 7 days with a dead mom. Even if the chance of a heart attack was 1 in 1,000,000 it was my job to make sure that kid was ok. Maybe that sounds dumb, but that’s my job. Keep the kid alive.
When I didn’t have kids, a heart attack was no big deal at all.
My parents were very protective of me and my sister, but i figured it was too much my plan is to let the kid be able to take care of himself startting age 6-7, at least rnough to go hom on his own (uber, bike etc), and have at least one neighbor oncall to take care of him/her if we cant be there exactly on time for whatever reason.
It really depends on the kid and the school. If your school is a couple of blocks away or a straight shot on the city bus, it’s one thing, but the farther away it is, the harder it is for the kid to navigate. I did take a city bus to school in 1st grade, but it was a straight shot, practically door-to-door, and I think my mom walked me to the busstop for a while to talk to the driver.
BTW: The bigger question is whether the school will let them leave by themselves. Some schools won’t–they have to be checked out by an “authorized adult.” Which probably doesn’t include a random Uber driver. Adult has to be on the list of people and show ID.