I used to like simple pleasures too, like attending or throwing home bachelor parties where Playboy playmates attend. My Palo Alto buddy took a shower with one at his bachelor party. He still has a smile on his face to this day…
If you are living only with investments alone, say stock and real estate rental income, you can consider retired as these are passive income and you have 24x7 free time for your self.
Your understanding on retirement is wrong. Business income earners are not considered retired.
If you run a business , even with flipping, you work flexible for your business, but you work mandatory ( and can not stop working). In this case, this is not retirement.
All I understand is that you are financially independent, but not retired from work/service.
Some people never get w2 income. Realtors are definitely working and not retired, they work harder than a w2 worker.
I think you can consider wqj retired since his flipping work is optional, it can be treated as a gainful hobby.
We can define a score of boss dependency. W2 worker is 100, realtor is 50, FIRE is 0. The lower your boss dependency score, the greater your freedom. Is freedom your #1 dream?