I think it is more important to teach your kids how to succeed in business and how to live a happier life. It’s silly to have the kids do stuff that’s helpful with Harvard admission but forget to show your kids how to do business, how to deal with people, and how to make the kids and their friends happy.
Many Harvard grads are successful because their parents are successful or possess qualities to be successful. Family influences is way more important than which college the kids go to.
You go to Harvard and Yale to network. My sister met Gates and Balmer at Harvard, she also got hit on by Ted Kennedy at a alumni party. She majored in classics. At least she was smart enough to marry a guy second in his class at Harvard law. She thought Balmer was ugly and Gates was weird …she turned down Ted. I told her she should have set him up and taken pictures.
How do you know @Elt1’s brother-in-law doesn’t have a beautiful heart? He could be like that lawyer who lectured the greedy tenant for hoarding the rent controlled apartment.
Diversity is not the destination. Diversity is just a way to cope with the reality. In the ideal world, we want everyone good at math, good at likability and good at everything.
I read a few of the comments on this topic and one of them came from someone who was working at such a consulting agency (serving mainly Asian students, I assume). She wrote that a recurring “issue” with the essays about the student’s choice of major was that it was the parents’ wish, part of a community need or other outside factors; in other words, the emphasis on personal drive, vision, and passion was the missing ingredient in those applications. Maybe they lacked the selfish gene, or at least the appearance of it…
Then again maybe there is something wrong with Harvard’s formula if Jack Ma was rejected 10 times